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High Sierra
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Posted - 2006.01.04 13:49:00 -
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Having lived with a complete psycho (and no thats not my 'other' personality kids) my only advice to you can be: get the hell out whichever way you can.
My particular nutjob played a lot of mindgames with me and the relationship ended with her telling me I was going to dump her for three months until I'd had enough and finally said 'ok, if thats what you think then lets end it' At which point she screamed blue murder at me and threatened suicide.
My entire response was 'Theres the door. Get out.'
You have to be hard. If she is harming herself then she needs help. Right Now. And you are not the person to help her - Dont even try because you are emotionally involved so you will only dig yourself deeper.
You must look after number one - yourself. If she threatens you, dont react to it. dont give in. But dont call her bluff.
You must be strong. Do not allow her to dictate to you. And dont play her 'game'.
Think of it like this, was the fact that she self harms your problem before you got together? So why should it be now? Its her problem, let her deal with it.
Do not feel guilty. Cos that will be one of her games - to send you on a guilt trip so you do what she wants.
Now what I am saying is pretty harsh, but trust me. I've been there and done it. I came out of my relationship with deeply damaged emotions and it was quite some time before I plucked up the courage to get into another relationship.
Dig deep and do what esturary said - dump her and stay well away.
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High Sierra
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Posted - 2006.01.04 14:11:00 -
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Xyliana.....
are you drunk? cos no matter which way I read that I just cant work it out!
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High Sierra
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Posted - 2006.01.04 17:50:00 -
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pshepherd, probably because I'm male.
I learned years ago that I will never NEVER understand women.
High Sierra's Theory on Women:
She decides that she wants me to do something.
Instead of just asking or telling me, she tries to drop the subtlest of subtle hints.
Me being male, I totally miss the hint because these things just don't appear on my radar.
SO
She gets annoyed with me because I havent done what she wanted me to do and she does it herself.
So to make amends, I do something else that I think she wants doing, and besides the first thing is already done so I cant do that anyway.
She sees what I've done to make amends.
Gets even more upset because thats not what she wanted me to do and I never did the thing she wanted me to do in the first place anyway.
Cue: Sulking on the sofa cuddling the worlds biggest cushion (probably with tassles) surrounded by chocolate wrappers and empty wine botles. Watching some naff romantic film on TV while on the phone to ALL her friends (how is it women have so many when they are upset.... why do they have to call them?), running up a phone bill that makes 3rd world debt seem mere pocket change in comparison. This however is offset by the fact that theres no need for the lights and heating because theres enough candles in the living room to power the national grid.
and in some way its ALL MY FAULT.
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High Sierra
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Posted - 2006.01.04 21:05:00 -
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ah... understanding.
oh and mercury, thats just a theory.
but you know I'm right about the cushion, chocolate and everything.
but then god only invented women cos he couldnt teach sheep to get the beer from the fridge........
*ducks*
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High Sierra
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Posted - 2006.01.05 18:28:00 -
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 Originally by: DJ Xyliana
Originally by: Metternich Stele
Tick tock goes the clock....
Oh please do not tell me that.. I know I know, so yes if I want to have children I am told that I should settle down sometime between now and 35ish. Although at the moment EVE > MEN so where does that fit into the clock bub!
See because MEN have helped make EVE it is their fault
/ women logic
*High Sierra stands there with a big idiotic grin on his face*
take me home! you'd have to fight ME to see who gets to check their skill training first!
xyliana?
uh.....
ok. which one of you scared her enough to make her run away screaming? come on. own up.
  
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